My youngest sister, Hillary, has been the reigning Miss Kearns for the past year. It's been a great experience for her as she has learned to serve her community. However, it has also had it's down side. I wont drag you down with a full description of everything that has happened to her, but here is something to give you an idea of what she has been going through. Remember how you felt when you were 15. Add that to any memories you have of dealing with catty drama queens. And you are close to knowing what Hillary has dealt with this year.
Last night was the pageant where the new Miss Kearns was crowned, and Hillary got to give away her crown. It was a small slice of what the last year has been like. Through out the night I kept seeing examples of why I am glad Hillary is done with this program.
This was the 5th Miss Kearns Pageant I've been to. Every year they play the same music for each segment. This year they changed all the music. I could understand if they wanted to update the music to more current popular music, but the music they picked was horrible. It didn't go with the moments at all. It's like the people in charge thought, "this is the 10 year anniversary, we better do something different, like change the music." But then spent 30 seconds picking out the music.

This year I didn't know any of the contestants so I felt a little disconnected from caring about who won. Also the pageant directors took out the Talent portion of the program. Their rational for this was to include girls that didn't have a performing talent. As a replacement they put in a group talent to "
foster their individual team building skills." So instead of seeing each girl perform a short song, dance, monolog, poem, etc we got to see all the girls perform a dance together. Hillary later told me that the girls were told that they would receive the same score for this segment. They were told, "you're all going to get the same score, and so you all want it to be real high." I really missed the talent part. It's always so amazing to see a young person conquer their fears and perform alone on a stage. This year I felt like I never got to know the contestants.

Hillary was also excluded from showing her talents. In other years the exiting royalty has always performed filler acts between the contestants' parts. Hillary practiced for several weeks to learn to sing the Abba song, "Thank you for the Music". Well for some reason (and probably a petty reason) Hillary was told that the Royalty wouldn't perform this year. I told her it was because they didn't want her to have a live microphone - they didn't want her telling everything that really goes on in this pageant. So Hillary didn't get to share her beautiful singing voice. Instead everyone got to hear Little Miss Kearns screech out "My Heart Will Go On". The little 9 year old girl didn't even have piano accompaniment, she sang along with the Celine Dion version.

Hillary did have her moment though. She was allowed her final walk. Traditionally the final walk is where the Reigning Royalty walks across the stage while a recording of them talking about their year plays. Hillary was able to strut her stuff as she smiled and posed for everyone. Brandon was able to be Hillary's escort for this part.

At the end of the pageant the new royalty was crowned. I really didn't care about them, but I did have my favorites. (I was going for the girl that was courageous enough to wear a mini skirt as formal wear) Then it was over. Hillary was done. Whatever this year had been it was now over.

We all congratulated Hillary on how well she did. Then we came home and had the traditional after party where we all discussed the pageant. We had fun laughing at how one of the filler acts of little boys lip syncing upstaged the group talent part. We asked Hillary if she had orchestrated a certain technical difficulty (she hadn't, but she had tried to prevent it), and we just laughed and laughed. We were so relieved that it was over.