This week was rough. The Spring time change is never good and this was no exception. But we made it through and had a few good moments in there too. So here's the recap.
But first we need to talk about two things I forgot about in the last update. Both have to do with Veronica. She had some homework that she was really nervous about getting done by the end of the quarter. The assignments were pretty big and would affect her grades a lot. But she was so worried about them she was kind of paralyzed about how to start.
So on Wednesday night I told her that we would read 15 minutes of Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire and then she would do 15 minutes of homework. This worked out really well. We had fun reading and then she'd buckle down and do that homework. She was really focused and wrote a lot. And at the end of that 15 minutes we'd read more of the book followed by more homework.
On Thursday after school we had her annual IEP. This went really really well. The staff has been super supportive of her. We went over her accommodations and found a few that she no longer needs. Back in her high anxiety days in elementary school she needed to be warned ahead of time about Fire Drills. She doesn't need that anymore. So that was taken off her accommodations. It was cool to see how she's grown up a lot.
Okay, now we are ready to talk about Monday March 9th.
It was a little hard to get up on Monday, but I felt like I made it through the day okay. I got everyone to school and I worked until it was time to pick Derrick up. I felt like I was winning at this whole Daylight Saving Time thing.
In the evening Brandon and Derrick came with me to my office so we could pick up a cute blue couch. The therapist who was using it had replaced it. It had been up for grabs for any other therapist to put it in their office. My boss had sent out an email saying that on March 9th it would be available for anyone to take home. And he'd said that if it wasn't claimed by Friday he'd take it to DI. I was like, "Hey I'm still in the phase of life where I buy my couches from DI. And I'd probably buy that couch. So I'll just take it when it's available."
So Brandon and Derrick helped load the couch into the van. It stuck out the back a little bit so Brandon showed Derrick how to tie the back of the van down. Then we drove home and they put it in the living room.
The plan was to take one of the living room couches down to the basement to replace the part of the sectional that was completely falling apart. Of the three seats there was only one that hadn't collapsed. But on Monday we did not have energy to play musical couches. Getting that sectional into the basement had nearly ruined our marriage a few years ago - I wasn't taking any chances on the first day of Daylight Saving Time. So the new blue couch went into the living room and we just had three couches in there for the next few days.
Derrick is the Teachers Quorum Secretary and one of his assignments is to send out a reminder text about the activity each week. I kind of lobbied for him to have that assignment. I told the leaders, "Derrick's favorite thing is to remind people about upcoming things. He'll do great at this." For YEARS I've been annoyed at how terrible the young men leaders are at communicating about activities. And I'm not the only one. Every other mom of teenage boys has the same complaint. You should see our text conversations where the moms are trying to pull information out of the leaders. Here's an example:
Adult Leader: Our activity this week is a hike to the Evil Kinevil Jump site.
Mom #1: What time are the boys meeting?
Adult Leader: 7:00
Mom #2: Where are the boys meeting at the trailhead or the church?
Adult Leader (the next day): The church
Mom #3: How are the boys getting home? Should we meet you somewhere?
Different Adult Leader: We'll bring the boys home
I'm trying to teach Derrick to send texts with all the info in the first text. My goal is that he will be able to write these texts by himself by the end of the year. But for now I'm writing them out. We always fill out a whiteboard with the information so we can know we have all the info. This is the whiteboard we filled out for his activity this week.
Then we figure out how to word it in a text. I type the text and then he pushes the send button. It's a good system and all the moms appreciate getting the info text with all the info on a Monday instead of a piecemeal version on Tuesday/Wednesday.I went to bed on Monday thinking that I'd made it through the time change with no problems. Tuesday morning was a different story. I got all the kids off to school. And then I came back home and went back to sleep for an hour.
At 11:00 I met with Cassy. She's been my billing client for a year, but we are getting to the point where she can handle pretty much everything on her own. We talked about what we are going to do going forward.
Then I went to Aspen Grove for admin meeting. And then I took care of a lot of things at work.
That afternoon I took Veronica to theatre and then Charlotte and I went to D&B to get more chicken food. I also needed triple 16 fertilizer for my lawn so I bought that.
I couldn't find my phone after we got home and I was WAY overacting to that. I realized I was super tired. I finally found my phone in the basket where I keep the library books and DVD's.
I picked up Veronica from theatre. She'd had another great time.
I though that I'd been feeling better by Wednesday. But instead I woke up in a super bad mood. I was feeling really anxious about the things I had to do that day. I had to work on Jump Company bookkeeping things and I knew that was going to be really complicated because the show had been the weekend before.
I was also supposed to meet with my friend Brian about his political campaign that afternoon. And I think that was the thing that was making me the most upset. I'd been dumb and committed to being the treasurer for his campaign before I really knew what the plan was. I'd assumed that he'd have a campaign manager, but he still didn't have one. I'd also joined on thinking that it would be great to vote in the republican primary against Mike Simpson. However, that required changing my party affiliation for the primary. And as we got closer to that I didn't want to give the republican party the honor of having my name on their rolls - even temporarily. So I wasn't even planning to vote for Brian in the Primary.
So while I was crashing out on Wednesday morning I decided that I had to tell Brian that I was too busy for his campaign. So I sent him a text letting him know.
I got everyone to school and then went out to Filer to do the bookkeeping. All my anxiety had been for nothing. Yes, there was a lot to do, but I was able to figure it all out. I was there for over 4 hours! It's good that I'd told Brian I couldn't meet with him because we were scheduled to meet at 1:00 and I was still at Jump at 1:00.
I went home and had lunch and started working on some little projects. I was about to start working on the Exponent financials audit when Marcia started barking a lot outside.
I ignored her for a little bit, but she didn't stop so I went out to check on her. She was barking at something in the back of the yard. At first I thought it was a cat or something. But I couldn't see anything. Then I saw a bird flap it's wings. It was a bird that was stuck in the netting around the chicken coop.
I thought it was our littlest chicken, Seed. I assumed she'd jumped off the roof of the coop and got stuck in the netting.
But when I got close I could see Seed on the ground. Then I thought the bird was a hawk. I thought one of the hawks that often circle the coop had dive bombed the coop and got tangled up in the netting. I was excited to tell Charlotte that the netting had protected her chickens.
But then I looked closer and realized it was an owl. AN OWL. My day had kind of sucked up to this point, but this owl really turned things around.
I hurried to help the owl. It was stuck upside down and I imagined that it was no fun to be upside down. I wondered how long it had been there. I figured that it had been there since the night.I slept so well and felt so much better when I woke up on Thursday. The kids went out to the garage to check on the owl. He wasn't in the cage so we all assumed that Brandon had let him go before bed. I was glad the owl was doing well.
I got through all my Thursday things for all my billing clients. I had to leave work a little early to pick Derrick up at 3:00. Charlotte and Lydia had a dentist appt at 3:30 which is the time I usually go get Derrick. So the easiest thing was to just pick him up early. I dropped him off at home and then went to the dentist.
Charlotte and Lydia were driving themselves to the dentist after school. It's just down the street from the high school so they were there a little after I was.
The appointment went really well. They were assigned to my friend Sam. He and Brandon were in Guys and Dolls together and his wife is in a lot of plays. Usually we see Dr Berg. But sometimes we get assigned to Sam. They hygienists always introduce the dentist like I'm a first time client. So it's already kind of silly when they are like, "This is Dr Berg" and I'm like, "yep, he's been our dentist for 6 and a half years." But it's even more silly when they are like, "This is Dr Upton" and I'm like, "HEY SAM!"
The girls didn't have any cavities so that was good.
I took Veronica to theatre and picked her up. I spent a lot of time updating this blog.
When Brandon came home from CSI he asked me, "So did you let the owl go?"
I was like, "Wait, didn't you let the owl go?"
So we hurried out to the garage. The owl was sitting on the table next to the kennel. I have NO IDEA how it got out. It must had been able to fit through the bars.
We were like, "we'll let's let it go." Brandon found a stick and tried to get the owl to step on the stick. His plan was to take the owl outside. Things did not go to plan AT ALL. The owl got spooked and flew up into the rafters.
We tried opening both garage doors and tried to get the owl to fly out of the garage, but he just kept flying back and forth in the roof area. He never came down.
Here's a picture of the owl perched on the rafters.
Finally we just left the garage doors open about 2 feet and hoped that if the owl was able to squeeze out of the kennel then it would be able to figure out how to get out of a 2 foot gap.On Friday I checked the garage - and the owl was still in the rafters.
But there wasn't much I could do so I just closed the doors and went to work.
It was the end of the quarter and so the kids only had a half day of school. That didn't change much for me though. I still went to work and stayed until about 1:00. Then I picked up Derrick.
We came home and I took a nap. Then Derrick and I went grocery shopping.
We bought some hamburger and put that in the garage for the owl. We put it by the garage door and opened the doors 2 feet again.
That night we went to the Orpheum to see Anastasia. I was really nervous about this show. I'd loved Anastasia when I saw it at Tuacahn, and I just wasn't sure that this show in humble Twin Falls couldn't be as good as Tuacahn.
Well I was proved wrong. The show was wonderful to watch. My friend Alyssa who had been one of the Step Sisters in Cinderella was Anastasia. She was flawless. Preston as Dimitri was also wonderful. His voice is really good. Jared played Vlad and was so funny and so good. He normally shaves his head, but he's been growing out his hair and beard for this roll. He looked incredible.
And the set was great too. Here are the arches that Brandon and Hunter made. They looked amazing.
And here are Brandon and me. Charlotte, Lydia, and Veronica came too. They just don't like posing for pictures.Saturday was one of those blessed days where we had absolutely no commitments. I loved not having to be anywhere at a specific time.
The biggest thing we did was move the couches. Brandon and Derrick took the junky couch out of the basement. Then they took one of the living room couches down stairs. And they moved the blue couch in front of the window.
Derrick helped me put the old couch in the van and we took it to the transfer station. Derrick said, "it smells like diapers here."
I was hoping to do some yardwork, but it was really windy. So instead I took a nap on the porch.
One thing I did get done was to start making the packing list and our menu for our spring break trip to California. I realized that everyone needed new sandals. So Brandon helped order some for everyone on Amazon.
Veronica spent about three days making a Hobbit house. This was inspired when she found a round ring thing on the ground and decided that it looked like a hobbit door. It turned out so cute.
Here's the door open.She had even made furniture for the inside.
This is looking in the window.
Here's the outside from another angle.
And another angle.
And looking through another window.
Saturday was 3/14 AKA Pi day AKA Pie Day. Originally we'd planned to get together with Jori's family and do fun things with pie. But earlier in the week I'd had decision fatigue and Jori had cold. So we decided not to get together.
And now it's Sunday. We have Stake Conference today. And our family is a solid zoom attending family so we again have a day where we don't need to do anything. It's lovely. I'm trying to catch up on all my writing projects before we go on vacation next weekend.
Anyway, thanks for reading.












































