My April of overcommitment continued last week. I was able to get mostly caught up the week of April 13-19. But it was the next week April 20-27 that I felt really on top of things - or as on top of things as I can get.
Sunday April 20th was Easter. I was not feeling it for Easter this year. I'd put Brandon in charge and he was great at getting candy for the kids, filling eggs, filling baskets, and basically everything. I didn't have to do anything and he is in charge of Easter FOREVER after this.
I woke up around 5:00 on Easter morning and had a hard time falling back asleep so I got up and worked on scheduling more guest posts for the Exponent. I went back to bed around 7:00 and slept until like 9:00.
We had a really chill morning. The kids found their baskets and ate a lot of candy. Here's Veronica with her basket and the sun glasses that Brandon picked out for her. The kids each got a new pair of sun glasses in their Easter baskets.
We all laughed really hard at this "Peanut Butt" candy.Charlotte and Lydia had hidden all the eggs on Saturday afternoon. All the kids went outside to look for eggs around 10:00.
I took two whole pictures of the hunt.
I was just not into it this year.
Here are the kids with their haul.
We also had the cookies they'd decorated on Saturday.
Church was only an hour long. One of the bishopbric counselors spoke. He gave a really good talk.
And that's it. I'm sure we watched a movie in the evening, but I can't remember what it would have been. A few weeks ago we watched Seven Brides for Seven Brothers because Derrick had watched part of it in his choir class. (Yes, I'm as surprised as you are that he's still going to choir.) He LOVED that movie which seems strange until you remember there's a lot of slap stick, a big fight, and it's set in the old west. So yes, he loved it!
On Monday I only went to work for about two hours because I had a board meeting for Idaho Parents Unlimited over zoom at 11:00.
I was back home for the meeting. I couldn't find my webcam so I was just on audio the whole time. But I probably would have muted my screen because I spent most of the meeting prepping the book cases for stain. I taped off all the walls.
I listened to the meeting the whole time and jumped in with comments, questions, and votes as needed, but I spent most of the meeting climbing up and down the ladder with a role of tape in my hands.
As soon as the meeting was over at 1:00 I jumped into staining the wood. I worked on it until Veronica came home from school around 2:00. And then kept going a little longer. But after about 3:00 I was at a stopping place.
And I HATED how the stain was turning out. All that work and it was streaky and somehow both too dark and too light. I took this picture to text Brandon to tell him about my discouragement. Then I went and took a nap.
On Tuesday I had to work all day. But as soon as I could I was back to staining that evening. That second coat went really well. The shelves were beautifully dark. I was like, "OOOOHHHH I didn't ruin my living room.
Here's one.And the other. I noticed that I didn't like the while ceiling inside the tops of each book case. So I decided to paint that part blue on Wednesday.
On Wednesday I had my day off and I didn't have to worry about scripture study. So I could get the shelves finished. I started the day by taping things off one last time.
Then I took all the middle schoolers to school and got them dropped off.
Veronica was staying home from school because her class was going on a field trip to see Jive. Veronica likes Jive, but the field trip can be a really loud and chaotic time. She had a panic attack on that field trip a few years ago. So she was really nervous about it. And since she's barely hanging on by a thread to 5th grade I let her stay home.
It actually worked out really well. A new lady in my ward needed someone to watch her 4 year old son. I was like, "Hey, he can come hang out with Veronica. She's AMAZING with little kids." (I'm not exaggerating. When we were at McDonalds for Derrick's birthday she played on the play place and immediately started some sort of hide and seek game with a random kid.)
So Shaylee brought her son over and Veronica played with him for close to 2 hours. I took care of painting during that time.
I was really really really worried that I'd spill paint all over the newly stained wood, but nothing like that happened.
And soon I was pulling the last of the tape off and then it was time to decorate it!
We'd put all the stuff that had been on the shelves on a card table that had been sitting in the middle of the living room since Monday morning. I took everything off of that and put it back on the shelves. Then I went downstairs and found the books that used to be in the living room on a janky book shelf. Those books looked so good on the shelves.
Later as the kids came home from school I had them each pick out a shelf to put things on. The final result was incredible. Not only did the shelves look so good - they looked like they had always been in our living room.
I went through some papers that were on the microwave and found the sketch of the drawing I'd made to give Brandon and idea for what I wanted.That afternoon Veronica and I went grocery shopping. Then I came home and took a long nap.
On Thursday I woke up really early in the morning and felt strangely dizzy - while laying in bed. Later I got up and was even more dizzy.
It didn't go away when it was time for me to get the kids up and ready for school. I was really worried about whether or not I should drive. But I also didn't want the kids staying home from school - especially Derrick.
I walked Veronica to school and felt okayish. A long time ago I'd had really similar vertigo and the way I'd helped it was to suck on mint candy. I didn't have mint candy, but I did have peppermint tea. So I made that and started drinking it before I had to drive the middle school kids.
I was also feeling nauseous and so drinking anything made me feel like I had to throw up. Things were really touch and go there for a few minutes as I tried to drink the tea and then tried to not throw up.
I told the kids that I was really glad I was done with the shelves because there was no way I could climb the ladder if I was feeling this woozy.
The drink must have helped a little bit and after a few minutes I felt okay with driving. So I dropped Charlotte and Lydia off at their school and then drove across town to drop Derrick off at his school.
Then I came home and ate something and then laid down in my bed and slept for about an hour. I took it easy the rest of the morning. I worked from home for Castle Therapy and thankfully didn't have much to do for my new client. And by noon I felt well enough to drive into work at Aspen Grove.
I'm glad I went into the office in person because we had a few big checks show up in the mail. I also had a lot of electronic payments to process. It was the end of the pay period so it was really important to get all that put in.
By the time I made it home from work the whole vertigo thing felt like a distant memory. And that was good because I was hosting bunco that night.
This was one reason I was so motivated to get the living room shelves finished. I wanted the living room to be put together for Bunco.
Bunco had taken a lot of prep besides the shelves. I also had a buy 5 prizes. This was hard for me because I don't buy cutsy things a lot. But I finally figured out five things. I had a wind chime, a white board/scheduler, a lavender plant that came with a fake lavender plant in case things didn't work out with the live one, a rosemary plant that came with clippers in case things did work out with the rosemary, and the book, "One Beautiful Dream" by Jennifer Fulwiller.
Here's how the living room was set up. We pushed the love seat up against the backpack wall. That was where one table was. The other table was in front of the other couch. The food was on the side bar table where we usually keep the piano keyboard. (We'd moved the keyboard to my bed for the evening.) Bunco take three tables so the third table was in the kitchen.
At 7:30 Brandon took the kids to Centennial Park and my friends started arriving. In addition to Carol, Shaylee, Marianne, and Justine we had Jori, Beth, Lindsey, Chandler, Cori, Sami, and Nicole.
Bunco is a dice game, but its really an excuse to talk to friends. As you win or lose you move around to different tables. So you are sitting with different people all the time. It's kind of complicated to talk, roll dice, count points, and eat all at the same time, but it works out well.
We had a good time playing. I was on a roll again and had 17 wins. That would have earned me a prize but I didn't want one. So Marianne got the prize with 15 wins. And she'd never played before.
We were done by 9:30 and some people left. Brandon and the kids came home. They'd had a lot of fun at the park and then the bridge and then getting a pizza from Little Caesar's and eating it in the car.
A few people hung around and talked for a while. Jori later told me that my house is a place where people relax and feel comfortable sharing things. I liked hearing that.
Around 10:30 Lydia came out of her room because she wasn't feeling well. I gave her some nyquil. She really wanted vick vapor rub. But we couldn't find it. So Brandon went to get some. The last of the guests had arrived when I'd started tracking down medicine for Lydia. But some of them had just moved their conversations to the driveway. When Brandon came back from the store he joked, "You guys are welcome to talk on the patio. I can turn the lights on for you." But the ladies were almost done and soon went home.
The night had been great and I'd had so much fun hosting. But I'm also glad it won't be my turn again for a while.
On Friday I spent close to 4 hours at work. It was another day of listening to musicals. I'd been working through Sweeny Todd and I finished it. The Orpheum is doing this play in the fall. Brandon really wants to be in it. He's actually hoping to play the super evil judge. This character is so evil that last time Jared directed the play he didn't want anyone else to have to play the part so he cast himself in the role.
But Brandon's really feeling like he wants to play a villain so he's interested in the role. He's even bought the script book to prepare. The judge gets his throat slit at the end. That's how Brandon's character in Treasure Island died so he's like, "Hey, I already have experience with getting my throat slit.
So anyway, I listened to the musical and I liked the music a lot. (Even if the subject manner is kind of off putting.)
At 1:00 I went over to Jori's to help with her raspberry patch. We pulled out all her raspberries and all the other random things growing in with the raspberries. There were bulb flowers. There were goji berry plants, and there was a ton of grass.
We got it all out and then I turned over a whole row of dirt and got it ready for berries again. I put about 8 plants with good roots back in.
It was a lot of work and I was very tired by the end. But it was good work. Jori wasn't sure where she wanted to replant the Goji berries and I wasn't sure if they even would replant because their roots were so weird. So she just gave them all to me. I took them home and planted them. I'm hoping two of them will do well in a place where I want an arch. The rest I put in a row that I'm calling "death row" because I'm pretty much expecting them all to die. But who knows their weird roots might be okay with transplanting after all. So we'll see what happens.
Brandon came home and I had him help me load the tiller into the van. (Yes, we have a tiller. Brandon's friend went through a nasty divorce and after all was said and done the wife didn't take her tiller and the husband didn't want it and gave it to us.) We took the tiller over to Jori's.
And then we came home and I took a shower. We'd been half planning to go to the Symphony concert that night, but I was pooped. So we stayed home and watched Down Periscope with the kids. Derrick loved it so much. I fell asleep about halfway through.
When that was over Charlotte and Lydia wanted us to watch a new show they like called Sweet Tooth. We watched one episode and I was hooked. I dreamed about it all night.
Saturday was a really busy day, but in a good way. It started out with taking Charlotte to Tubbs Berry Farm. It was their annual Bee Days. But we weren't there for the bees. We were there to see the goats. Charlotte loves goats so much.
On our way out our our neighborhood we'd passed what used to be a trailer park. They've been cleaning it out for several months and all the trailers are gone. Now who ever owns it has moved onto chopping down the big trees. It's so sad to loose the trees. But as we drove by I was eyeing the piles of logs that have been left behind.And I realized I needed some more pictures of the yard so here's one of the path.
And the side yard (with one of my existing logs.)
Isn't that pretty! And look at that lilac. It's almost ready to bloom.
Here are more of the pretty tulips. I love this time of year.
Here's another bed.
Veronica was looking all cool in the car so I took her picture.
Brandon had been working on how to get the stump out. He tied rope around it and had all the kids pull. That worked, but the stump was so deep in the trunk that it needed an extra push. So Brandon sat in the car and pushed it up while the kids pulled it out.
That worked and we were able to roll it to it's spot. Here's Charlotte posing with it. (Though I think I have a better spot in mind after the tulips are done.
The class was really good. Jennifer Moss was super good at teaching in an engaging way. She had good handouts too.
I filled the whole trunk of my van with plants.
Then I came home and realized my flowers were lovely so I had to take more pictures of those.
Aren't they just beautiful!
And then I had the kids help me bring all the plants to the patio table.
They all said it looked like a mini jungle.
The kids had been playing with the chickens in the back yard. They brought the big chickens out and the little ones too. They had them in separate cages, but they could see each other. This is the first time they met.
I spent the rest of the afternoon figuring out the plants. The first thing I did was group them and count them. I had so many tomatoes and peppers. A lot of herbs and a few cucumbers.
Then I got another bed ready and planted the onion sets. I've never done onion sets and only watched one youtube video on how to do that so I'm not sure if I did it right at all, but at least they were in the ground.

I moved the rest of the plants into the garage since it's still a little too cold for them at night. I realized I had way too many. I had like 23 tomato plants, but only room for 16 of them at best. So I texted Jori and asked if she wanted some. Of course she did.
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